100 Important Questions to ask a potential spouse

I found this on a site that I frequently refer to and thought the questions were awesome; so I thought I'd share them with my friends.

100 questions to ask a potential spouse!
(1) What makes him angry and how does he deal with his anger?
(2) Does he ever forgive those with whom he was angry?
(3) How does he behave during a crisis?
(4) How does he feel about women's rights in a Muslim home?
(5) How does he make decisions? Does he rely on his own wisdom? Does he consult with close friends?
(6) he be willing to consult with his spouse on any decision?
(7) Does he stick firmly to his decisions?
(8) How does he deal with money matters?
(9) Does he save his money for the future?
(10) Does he give money to charities? When he decides to buy something, will he consult his spouse in making the decision?
(11) How does he describe his own spending and attitude towards money?
(12) What does he expect from his wife and children?
(13) How would he react if his expectations are not met?
(14) What is his vision of family life?
(15) Would he pitch in and co-operate in family chores and the upbringing of children?
(16) Would he be willing to change to accommodate your views?
(17) What are his family like?
(18) Are his family religious, or will you be the only one in hijab?
(19) Does their approach to Islam differ from yours - will you be the only "fundamentalists" in a family whose Islam is more "traditional"?
(20) If this is a mixed match, are his folks open to outsiders, or will you face clannishness and exclusion?
(21) What is his medical background?
(22) Maybe just leave as have you been in a physical relationship before outside of marriage?
(23) Do you agree on the "halal meat" issue - some people will only eat halal-slaughtered meat, whilst others will eat any "meat of the Jews and Christians" as long as it's not pork.
(24) Does he insist on only eating the food of his own ethnic group, or are his tastes more eclectic?
(25) Will he insist on having every meal cooked from scratch, or will you be able to have convenience food or take-away on busy days?
(26) Does he have some strong preferences for meat, or will you "go vegetarian" some days?
(27) Does he smoke? Do any of his family or friends smoke? Will he let people smoke in your non-smoking home?
(28) How does he feel about women going outside the home? studying outside? working outside? (29) What is the role of religion in your life now?
(30). Are you a spiritual person?
(31). What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?
(32). What are you expecting of your spouse, religiously?
(33). What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslims community in your area?
(34). Are you volunteering in any Islamic activities?
(35). What can you offer your zawj (spouse), spiritually?
(36). What is the role of the husband?
(37). What is the role of the wife?
(38). Do you want to practice polygamy?
(39). What is your relationship with your family?
(40). What do you expect your relationship with the family of your spouse to be?
(41). What do you expect your spouses relationship with your family to be?
(42). . Is there anyone in your family living with you now?
(43). Are you planning to have anyone in your family live with you in the future?
(44). If, for any reason, my relationship with your family turns sour, what should be done?
(45). Who are your friends? (Identify at least three.)
(46). How did you get to know them?
(47). Why are they your friends?
(48). What do you like most about them?
(49). What will your relationship with them after marriage be?
(50). Do you have friends of the opposite sex?
(51). What is the level of your relationship with them now?
(52). What will be the level of your relationship with them after marriage?
(53). What type of relationship do you want your spouse to have with your friends?
(54). What are the things that you do in your free time?
(55). Do you love to have guests in your home for entertainment?
(56). What are you expecting from your spouse when your friends come to the house?
(57). What is your opinion of speaking other languages in home that I do not understand? (with friends or family)
(58). Do you travel?
(59). How do you spend your vacations?
(60). How do you think your spouse should spend vacations?
(61). Do you read?
(62). What do you read?
(63). After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings verbally?
(64). How do you express your admiration for someone that you know now?
(65). How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favour for you?
(66). Do you like to write your feelings?
(67). If you wrong someone, how do you apologize?
(68). If someone has wronged you, how do you want (s)he to apologize to you?
(69). How much time passes before you can forgive someone?
(70). How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
(71). Do you use foul language at home? In public? With family?
(72). Do your friends use foul language?
(73). How do you express anger?
(74). How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
(75). What do you do when you are angry?
(76). When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?
(77). When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or otherwise, how should the conflict get resolved?
(78). Define mental, verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
(79). Do you suffer from any chronic disease or condition?
(80). What is your understanding of proper health and nutrition?
(81). How do you support your own health and nutrition?
(82). What is you definition of wealth?
(83). How do you spend money?
(84). How do you think that your use of money will change after marriage?
(85). Do you have any debts now? If so, how are you making progress to eliminate them?
(86). Do you use credit cards?
(87). Do you support the idea of taking loans to buy a new home?
(88). What are you expecting from your spouse financially?
(89). What is your financial responsibility in the marriage?
(90). Do you support the idea of a working wife?
(91). If so, how do you think a dual-income family should manage funds?
(92). Do you currently use a budget to manage your finances?
(93). Who are the people to whom you are financially responsible?
(94). Do you support the idea of utilizing baby sitters and/or maids?
(95). Do you want to have children? If not, how come?
(96). To the best of your understanding, are you able to have children?
(97). Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, when?
(98). Do you believe in abortion and use of contraception?
(99). Do you have children now?
(100). What is your relationship with your children now?
(101). What is your relationship with their other parent?
(102). What relationship do you expect your spouse to have with your children and their parent? (102). What is the best method(s) of raising children?
(103). What is the best method(s) of disciplining children?
(104). How were you raised?
(105). How were you disciplined?
(106). Do you believe in spanking children? Under what circumstances?
(107). Do you believe in public school for your children?
(108) . Do you believe in Islamic school for your children?
(109) . Do you believe in home schooling for your children?
(110). What type of relationship should your children have with non-Muslim classmates/friends? (111). Would you send your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another state or country?
(112). What type of relationship do you want your children to have with all their grandparents? (113). If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of different race or culture, what type of relationship do you want to have with them?